WORK THE TALK with LeesahBala

Am still trying to understand what happened between  wizkid and Eva's fiance Caesar. Ah maybe his sunglass were too shady  or he totally choose to ignore him. While walking past the crowd he reached out to hug someone, Caesar thinking it was him, stretched his arms only for Wizkid to ditch him and hug Eva.  Will you can that pride or a mistake? 

With the growing popularity of social media, these days more than ever we are called upon to show off ‘who we are’. And while things like Facebook and Instagram encourage the best of us to exaggerate our good bits while glossing over the bad(ranging from false lashes, bottom pad etc), for some of us, our inability to be authentic is more than an online issue. It is a struggle in every part of our life.

This is a very interesting write up i came across this morning and decided to share it with you.... These are Oprah Winfrey's words:

Each person brings to their relationship a set of attitudes and beliefs; their unique perspective on the world based on their past and present experiences. To become a couple we have to find ways to accommodate our differences while still holding on to our individual identities. Finding the balance between "me", "you" and "us" is a continuing source of tension in relationships, which isn't easy, and that is what Godwin and Grace did (G & G). So here is the journey between two of the world most sweetest couple ever....  ENJOY the RIDE

Why are we viewed differently when we wear different outfit at different times? I was coming back from home and i saw some group of men harassing a lady and the first thing that came to my mind was "what is she wearing?" Pardon me, am not been judgemental here but mehn she was dressed ready to be harassed. another scenario of a guy with his pants down wont want to make me take him serious even if i have a million Naira job for him, i will be judgemental. So how do you want to be addressed? Style is important and shapes your self-perception, the perception of others and your sense of belonging.

So I told a friend that I wanted a tattoo and he was like never ever never and am like why, his reason was that I wont look responsible.  But we should always know that there is a good and bad side to everything, tattoos included. Since tattooing has been associated with everything from high rankings in certain social statuses to a symbol of criminality, tattoos definitely have some serious pros and cons in modern times. Lets start with the pros

Just before you jump on the newest fad, take a moment and ask yourself Am i comfortable in my own body and appearance? The internet constantly offer tips about how to lose weight “in days,” appear slimmer “instantly,” and hide our “imperfections without actually knowing anything about us, much less our appearance. 

People who are constantly striving to improve themselves will tell you one thing for sure, one thing they all have in common is having role models in their lives. This is a series i started, all thanks to Oba. TK. for helping me pull this through. What does it means to be the MODEL and not just a MODEL? And am talking about two different things here.

As we all know styles and style trend comes in and out of season. But this season we are all into the pleated skirt.... yepeeeeeeeeey....... The pleated skirt has graduated from being your high school uniform to been one of the closet essentials. A pleat is a type of fold that is made by doubling fabric back upon itself and holding it in place, usually with stitches.

In the spirit of this month which is tagged the cancer awareness month, i will like to do a little summary to what cancer is and its symptoms though am not a doctor but got this information from a reliable source. .... please read......... Cancer is the name given to a collection of related diseases. In all types of cancer, some of the body’s cells begin to divide without stopping and spread into surrounding tissues.

Leesah Jummai Bala was born on the 30th of April, in the city of Nyanya, Abuja Nigeria but spend almost all her growing years in Keffi Nasarawa State. Graduated from Nasarawa State University keffi.  Started her career in the Media world since her mama's womb time.... lol, Did a few months internship with Hot 98.3fm Abuja and www.tatafonaija.com. In 2016,Leesah's voice was heard with her own online platform called LIFE Today with LEESAH BALA meaning (Living Impact For Eternity (LIFE) ) and also a blog www.leesahbala.blogspot.com . More info loading ...... Complete photo after the cut...

Make this pledge with me....... I Promise Myself To be so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person i meet.

Color can be hard to deal with and when you remove colors from your closet, every piece is the same. Monochrome, which means black and white can help shed pounds. Black and white are everyone’s go-to colors of choice when it comes to fashion, but we underestimate the power of monochrome.

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.”– Albert Einstein I have had periods where giving up was my only option on the table, I felt I wasn't good for anything (not me, my family or humanity) so depression and so many ungodly thought crippled in. It was as though I have nothing to do, I felt worthless, rejected as tough I have hit the brick wall once more. I must confess I felt I had no control over anything like a tiny speck. Lake of tears stream down freely as if the whole was sitting on me but this just the circumstances and how it affected me but what comes after, are the actions I choose.

So I have been doing a little more on reading this past few weeks and one of the books that really got me excited was The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho’s and one of the many profound lessons in the book was that each person must discover his or her own “personal legend”—the unique path that leads to an individual’s destiny. . read more here

There is nothing more frustrating than looking for something in your purse and digging and digging and pulling things out, and you still can't find it- especially in public. Doesn't it always happen when you need a pen to give that cute guy or girl your number? Or when you are trying to pay at the store and can't find your ID or credit card? But,... where is it?

Wearing dark lipstick can be intimidating. But it can also be pretty empowering. I personally do a purple and dark pink lip to give me a darker lip shade or a wine color and a little purple shade. Dark lipstick isn’t just for goth fans! Everyone is brimming with dark lips in an array of shades from juicy berry and ruby reds to deep plums and burgundy wines.

This happens to be one of my best colors. The rich, dark burgundy, a fashion staple that reemerges as a widely worn hue every few years, consistently remains a truly classic color. The deep tone works well with a range of other hues, and instantly adds a degree of sophistication to your outfit. Burgundy is a shade of pinkish brown associated with the Burgundy wine of the same name, which in turn is named after the Burgundy region of France which in turn is named after the ancient Burgundians, a Germanic tribe. 

Some may mock the man-purse or "murse," but that doesn't mean men shouldn't carry a bag at all. The murse, or man purse, is quite a polarizing accessory. Investing in a nice everyday bag is important for any gentleman, says Ernest Sabine, owner of New York City menswear shop Ernest Alexander while speaking to CNN Money. "It's something that you carry with you everyday," says Sabine. "It says a lot about who you are, how you dress. It can really say something about your personality."

Should men wear one or more rings ? In as much as there’s any argument here, you can be rest assured, yes, men can wear rings if they want to but please don't look like Lord of the rings..lol

Their origins are with children and it was part of school prep. That was the only time in their lives they really wore shorts outside of athletic events. And it was simply many reasons for it such as kids were just notorious for tearing holes in their clothing and this was great.

If you think denim shirt is out of trend then you are wrong... lol... A denim shirt a timeless piece that never seems to go out of style. Although it has been around for centuries.The Denim shirt is a classic, versatile wardrobe staple that can be worn with a variety of bottoms. 

I personally have an obsession with the Pointy Toe Pump *cover face... yea true true....  The trend is back stronger than ever embracing their sharpness with most collections seen on the catwalks and fitting perfectly with any other trend! Most certainly pointed toe shoes can be a little daring, but when worn right, they suit with any style adding a chic, sophisticated and sleek touch!

Flared skirts have dominated the catwalks lately and it’s a trend that just as easily translates into your real life wardrobe.

A smile is one of the most simple, inexpensive and wonderful things in the world. Whether you woke up on the wrong side of the bed, picked a fight with a loved one or struggled through that morning commute to a job you don’t particularly enjoy, it can be a tough task to plaster a smile across your face when you’re feeling less than chipper.

So i decided to try out this old school hairstyle and it turned out cute on me... hehehehe...Bob is this season’s hottest cut. This cute hairstyle is timeless and will truly never go out of style. Short box braids are easier to maintain and install. Also, they are much lighter on the head. If you opt for bob, you’ll still be able to style your braids and rock some super chic hairstyles.

Hey fam, today's article is on straw curls. This hairstyle happens to be one of my favorite hairdo of all time. Straw curls are a tight version of corkscrew curls, popular in the mid-20th century.

Hey Fam, I got inspired to do this post by a darling friend that loves wrist watches...  Rolex collection to be precise... this is for you baby.....In today’s world of smartphones, smart watches, and clocks on every digital interface we encounter, a watch is almost pointless… at least from a utility standpoint.

Here’s a little history on the subject of Bantu Knots: Bantu is a colonial word used to describe Zulu people. The word was used to identify African people who spoke the Bantu dialect. The word Bantu does not refer to one group of people, rather over 10 million Africans of Zulu descent who speak the Bantu dialect. This is why Bantu Knots are also referred to as Zulu Knots. Zulu, as in African people. Bantu Knots have been worn by Black women as a way to protect and style their hair since the beginning of civilization. Below is a picture of a Madagascan woman rocking Bantu Knots circa 1898.

So how do you grow new hair naturally? There are many advantages of going natural with hair care. The most important being the fact that it works and it is inexpensive. It’s like having the cake and the cherry at the same time!

Hey Fam....This post is for the we afro team.. The naturalist or those intending to join the team, so when you get your hair low with the intention of growing your natural or virgin hair as we know it you will be likely to meet the big chop that is a full afro. Don’t be fooled, short haired naturals; your hair’s length has nothing to do with how fabulous it can look! Natural hair can be rocked in various styles, even at super short lengths.

Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.”  ~Iyanla Vanzant  Hey fam , we will be talking about self that is you today, but before then lets take a look on our major hit point for the day:

Hey fam, yesterday we talked about men and beards..... yeeeea (lol) don't mind me i just love beards tho... so today we'll talk about different types of beards and the one that is suitable for your handsome face. But firstly you need to ensure that you have the time and can make the commitment to allow your facial hair to grow. After all, you can’t really start styling your beard until you have one to style.

Speaking from a lady's perspective tho, let’s face it; there are certain characteristics that makes a man a real man and they are easy to spot from a distance – virtue, powerful, courage, strength, reliability, integrity, charisma, being self-assured (to name a few) and, of course, a kick-ass beard. It’s not the man that makes the beard but, rather, the beard that makes the man and without the presence of bad ass facial fur all other qualities become inconsequential.

Cinnamon is a highly delicious spice. It has been prized for its medicinal properties for thousands of years. Modern science has now confirmed what people have instinctively known for ages. Here are 10 health benefits of cinnamon that are supported by scientific research.

CROCHET BRAIDS Just incase you are having trouble picking out the right hairstyle for yourself or a friend or spouse(lol oh yes), i have drafted out a long list of hair style that can go for you at any time of the day.  Funny enough this hairstyle does not cause heat, its so light and can be styled in different ways if made in a vixen way.

Most people say your dressing or outfit does not have anything to do with you or your kind of person but trust me it has everything to do with it. I was coming from gwarimpa and me stopping over at banex saw this cute dark and beautiful girl all dressed somehow with a doubled colored hair, a leggies that was explosive, and a crop top (cant explain tho). Fashion has a lot to do with colors to the outfit type to the hairstyle and the makeup also. In my next post we will be doing a lot of talking but for now ask any fashion question you need answers to and i will be your superhero fashion police.....lol